I like the familiar. Stability, and consistency are words in my emotional dictionary that provide comfort. Though there are some people that enjoy the thrill of risk and adventure more than others I think most of us can say we would like to minimize surprises. Yet, a well known fact among those working in the field of family therapy is that within people systems such as families - change happens. Four months ago our family moved to a new house. We went through the purchasing and moving process within two months, and all of the change that came with the move was completely unexpected at the beginning of 2009. With the move came many changes for our family. Our daughters moved from the only house they had ever known. We now live in a home that is two stories, and located next to a park walking trail. We get lots of company. Our garage is smaller, our backyard is bigger, and we have poison ivy in many of the flower beds (this has just been discovered in the past two weeks). Some of these